Simon: My friend Bobby has been confronted about being in the wrong bathroom, in both the women's room AND the mens's room.
Lily: Ouch. People have these ideas about what it means to be a man or a woman. You can divide people by any measure ? chromosomes, hormones, the presence of a body part... but if you have standards on TOP of that, like women need to LOOK a certain way, or ACT a certain way to be considered WOMEN,
(Panel says: Women: pretty, sweet, sensitive, nurturing, delicate. Person: Wait, ALL THIS just from having a UTERUS?)
Lily: that's how gender becomes a social construct that not everyone fits into. People exist outside of that narrowly-defined binary whether you want them to or not.