(Simon talks to Lily) Simon: Trans people generally try to use the bathroom where they'll blend in the most. So if everyone suddenly started using ONLY the bathroom that aligns with their genitals, it would be a lot more awkward than most people realize. A lot of trans men LOOK LIKE MEN. People would be like "Oh my God, why are there MEN in the WOMEN'S room?" Like, this is what you WANTED, right? That guy has a VAGINA so this is where he belongs. Do you want him to pull his pants down and SHOW you? In that context, no one really cares what your genitals are. They THINK they do, but they only REACT how you LOOK, and that's the only thing that affects them.